The Valentine's Day Threesome

As Valentine’s Day quickly approaches, my husband and I are wondering how we will celebrate this holiday not as a couple, but as a family.  In the past, we celebrated V-day with romantic dinners, couples massages, etc. Considering baby Callie was born in November, Valentine’s Day holds special significance for us ;)  But this year, we can’t take a baby to a fancy restaurant (I don’t recall seeing high chairs at Majolica). So how do you celebrate a romantic holiday with the ultimate romance killer: a newborn. 

Mamas with newborns will understand.  You haven’t slept in who knows how long because you are always on call for a crying fit, not to mention the extra  baby weight makes you feel less than attractive.  In other words, daddies are really going to have to put on the charm to get Mommies in the spirit this holiday.  The old dinner and a movie gig may no longer useful.  Well maybe it is….

The Colonial Theatre has Babies Night on Mondays, and conveniently Valentine’s Day falls on a Monday this year.  Your dinner plans might include Iron Hill (see review), which is very family/baby friendly.  Valentine’s Day could very well be saved this year for new parents who don’t mind including baby on their romantic evening out.

But what could really make this Valentine’s day stand apart from the rest?  How about a professional photography session with you and your baby?  Everyone has that one outfit you’ve been dying to get baby into, but it’s just too darn nice for regular wear (and if you don’t, you have an excuse to go shopping).  So why not trek down to JCPenny Portrait Studio at the Exton or KOP Malls and get that photo taken?  Hint to Daddy looking for gift certificate opportunities:  give mommy an excuse to go have a salon day in preparation.  In keeping it local, we have Salon Fiber, Fashionistas, and Verde (where I received a very awesome maternity massage). 

But if you need some time alone (and we all need some strictly couples’ time) this V-day the hardest part is going to be finding a sitter.  No one, not even your single and childless friend, wants to admit they are alone on V-day, so finding a sitter might prove challenging.  Although I’ve never used the service, Care.com is a virtual warehouse of babysitters (and house cleaners…hint, hint, Daddy) ready to be hired.  You can find a local sitter who has had a background check and legit references.  To be honest it might beat having your folks watch the kid; your parents can be romance killer too. 

Whatever you decide to do for Valentine’s Day, may love guide you!  Cheers Phoenixville Parents!